tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post8656420202242623673..comments2023-04-17T08:44:13.092-07:00Comments on Crazy with a side of Awesome Sauce: AloneAndygirlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11639545596114354278noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-9580672860604160742011-12-11T15:11:55.834-08:002011-12-11T15:11:55.834-08:00This is the second entry I've read of your blo...This is the second entry I've read of your blog...realised I might have to read more. I was adopted at 7 and relate entirely to the relationship stuff you talked about. And now I've found an amazing guy that even I couldn't justify leaving for no good reason. I rediscovered a quote that I normally apply to life, and one day it occured to me to apply it to relationships and my Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-47944238387539130342011-12-03T14:35:18.968-08:002011-12-03T14:35:18.968-08:00No need to censor. No need to hold back.
Some pe...No need to censor. No need to hold back. <br /><br />Some people are just twats and there is nothing anyone can do about it. Everyone is here for ya. <3Nushhttp://ivyblaise.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-23075866150347290532011-12-03T06:23:38.966-08:002011-12-03T06:23:38.966-08:00It kills me that you're going through this, my...It kills me that you're going through this, my friend. <br />I wish that there was some magic thing that I could say to relieve you of your sadness.<br /><br />I'm here if you need another ear. xoxoNicholehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17074492084387694619noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-83980756367894783182011-11-29T07:19:42.802-08:002011-11-29T07:19:42.802-08:00Wow, you're making me think about what I might...Wow, you're making me think about what I might subconsciously think about myself. Very interesting. You seem really good at self-reflection- I hope you will figure out any internal blocks to your happiness.Skye Harmonyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17510737267511925972noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-41980607037615888992011-11-28T17:33:12.024-08:002011-11-28T17:33:12.024-08:00Sometimes trying to embrace aloneness is easier th...Sometimes trying to embrace aloneness is easier than admitting you can put yourself out there and possibly get hurt again. <br /><br />Keep your head up.Logical Libbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00107961721466815295noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-71148812172659939862011-11-28T09:54:14.529-08:002011-11-28T09:54:14.529-08:00Chills...seriously. Your posts always hit so close...Chills...seriously. Your posts always hit so close to home. I'll be curious to hear how you find ways to break the cycle. I haven't figured it out yet and am settling for Alone because it's where I'm most comfortable.Hutchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05675915108416510294noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-25338787403407410912011-11-28T07:41:52.023-08:002011-11-28T07:41:52.023-08:00Oh honey...You are so much like me it's scary!...Oh honey...You are so much like me it's scary! My heart hurts for you and I want to give you a huge hug. I have been in therapy since mid September and it was just last week that I stopped sugar coating my blog. Please know I am here if you EVER need to talk. I will shoot you my number. I am amazing at listening. And after all I have been through I can offer some help I think! Hugs and so Allie Greshamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12850184497555480195noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-12499032415034851072011-11-28T06:10:51.422-08:002011-11-28T06:10:51.422-08:00That's the great thing about blogging - it'...That's the great thing about blogging - it's cheaper than therapy, and sort of makes you feel like you aren't alone as long as you know people are listening and thinking about you - which, obviously, they are.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08420809700240691057noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-65377696588567176882011-11-27T20:06:35.254-08:002011-11-27T20:06:35.254-08:00In my family, they think I'm a bitch. And it ...In my family, they think I'm a bitch. And it drives me crazy because I don't even have to be in the room to be blamed for starting conflict. But also, I'm the one sibling all of those people turn to for comfort or laughter. Gets really draining, you know?<br /><br />But like you said, even though I KNOW I'm actually a really peaceful, loving person, I feel like I BECOME a bitchTiffhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03335187399790707418noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-62728884699390396952011-11-27T19:53:23.317-08:002011-11-27T19:53:23.317-08:00Your post reminds me so much of myself. I'm o...Your post reminds me so much of myself. I'm on the other side of the spectrum. I've always been alone. Always. And I hate it. I have had relationships, but but serious ones. I date here and there, and get dumped and lose. But even when I'm doing these thigns, this dating or "hanging out" with someone, I'm alone. Still. See, I've got issues that I don't Yvonnehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08038918668619367960noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-27672917492051056842011-11-27T19:24:45.534-08:002011-11-27T19:24:45.534-08:00This made me teary eyed- we've all got experie...This made me teary eyed- we've all got experiences of pain and sadness and tragic endings to relationships... Each one unique and each one making us feel like we could just curl up into the fetal position and lay under the safety of covers forever. Safe. <br /><br />It gets better. It always does. And it'll repeat itself again. It always does.<br /><br />But know, my sweet childhood Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-23516013197794907262011-11-27T18:59:00.855-08:002011-11-27T18:59:00.855-08:00I'd never thought about that - sort of primal,...I'd never thought about that - sort of primal, emotional inertia. It goes a long way to explain a few things in my life, too. But then it's such a bodacious chick like you, who can make radical change, who'd come up with a plan like that, setting yourself up for *maybe* success.<br /><br />I agree, of course, with Jess, though - people ARE jerks, and shit just happens - and it can'meredithhttp://ohthatmeredith.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-52804254660277283392011-11-27T18:52:01.975-08:002011-11-27T18:52:01.975-08:00As a fellow adoptee my heart breaks to read this. ...As a fellow adoptee my heart breaks to read this. I feel so much of your pain. I always liked and admired you when we were at UoR and in spite of our many differences, I feel like we have much in common. I wish you were closer, I'd go out for coffee or drinks with you to discuss. Here's a big cyber hug.Daughteroftheearthhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03867205899039129271noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-89938289782219983092011-11-27T18:49:21.281-08:002011-11-27T18:49:21.281-08:00...or via text message - telling you they may or m......or via text message - telling you they may or may not have genital herpes but they aren't blaming you... via text. I can laugh about it now, but it's true. some people are just jerks.Danahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02750940624775836845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-15079371700454458632011-11-27T18:30:00.995-08:002011-11-27T18:30:00.995-08:00I think there's always room for self-reflectio...I think there's always room for self-reflection, and it can be beneficial. But don't put all of the blame on yourself. Sometimes this stuff just ... happens. <br /><br />After I was dumped twice in a row via email, an acquaintance suggested that I must have done something to trigger it, because the only constant in both relationships was me. While I see her point, I can't take alonewithcatshttp://alonewithcats.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-26019452156637113422011-11-27T18:14:21.686-08:002011-11-27T18:14:21.686-08:00You really remind me a lot of myself... In so many...You really remind me a lot of myself... In so many ways. I'm optimistic that we will one day give more of ourselves in relationships, rather than throwing up the walls.Danahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02750940624775836845noreply@blogger.com