tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post6041649679720620132..comments2023-04-17T08:44:13.092-07:00Comments on Crazy with a side of Awesome Sauce: On Dating and Assholes and AestheticsAndygirlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11639545596114354278noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-65843516913614158742011-01-01T12:29:46.772-08:002011-01-01T12:29:46.772-08:00maybe I just need to move to Spain. when I lived i...maybe I just need to move to Spain. when I lived in France, I dated a delicious Roman. he was lovely.Andygirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11639545596114354278noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-51942913540540119442011-01-01T12:05:48.468-08:002011-01-01T12:05:48.468-08:00The trouble is, I just don't look at small bab...The trouble is, I just don't look at small babies and che in my soul.<br /><br />Well, okay I ache a little, but mostly that's just pity for the poor woman who's having to cart the bloody thing around all day...<br /><br />Nevermind the wankers, lovely. Just as the world is short of fabulous chicks, it's also short of decent men.<br /><br />In their place, however, there are lots The Barrenesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00104951958986232787noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-88445514917922790452010-12-31T14:27:05.774-08:002010-12-31T14:27:05.774-08:00thanks for the offer, doll. I've actually deci...thanks for the offer, doll. I've actually decided to be celibate for a while. get some perspective. :)Andygirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11639545596114354278noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-87722066423864709272010-12-31T13:54:57.492-08:002010-12-31T13:54:57.492-08:00::shakes fist at dipshit man::
i know several good...::shakes fist at dipshit man::<br />i know several good men in portland; however they're around my age (24 - 26ish) so that might not do you too well. but depending on what types of men you like... i might have some suggestions of people who already live there!<br /><br />: ]Satanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08924927495555847410noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-81917591212341352802010-12-30T22:28:18.762-08:002010-12-30T22:28:18.762-08:00woman, you rock my world. love you muchly. <3woman, you rock my world. love you muchly. <3Andygirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11639545596114354278noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-24020160673984455992010-12-30T22:16:13.611-08:002010-12-30T22:16:13.611-08:00So, you want I should make a call? *offer still op...So, you want I should make a call? *offer still open*<br /><br />The dude was a total douchecanoe and should consider himself lucky that he got *that* close to you. <br /><br />It will come, honey. It came for me when I didn't want it and thought that a soccer mom was the lowest form of life. And yet, here I am, in my minivan. Life never does what it's supposed to do. You are exactly Shnerflehttp://www.shnerfle.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-33896619112970176662010-12-30T17:25:24.901-08:002010-12-30T17:25:24.901-08:00A- feeling's mutual <3
And, yeah. I met thi...A- feeling's mutual <3<br />And, yeah. I met this guy who I thought was going to *be* a somebody. He was friends with all of my favorite people, we'd met once yrs prior when I was still in the grips of a terrible relationship, and we had sooo much in common, and I was sooo into him. I literally did not realize what a player he was until 2 weeks ago, one of my last nights in Denver Jackie Thttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09037093599664597217noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-6733228428606506862010-12-30T17:16:21.409-08:002010-12-30T17:16:21.409-08:00Jackie- oh how I love you. I think 3 years isn'...Jackie- oh how I love you. I think 3 years isn't that big a diff, except that the last 3 have been HUGE for me for personal growth (also exhausting for heartbreaks, but that's situational). it's just that every year adds more pressure ya know? but I stopped the whole wasted time thing a while back and started just meeting people organically (both friends and lovers). prob is, it'sAndygirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11639545596114354278noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-14912725474809759442010-12-30T16:35:54.770-08:002010-12-30T16:35:54.770-08:00I was single at 30. My friends suggested I stop da...I was single at 30. My friends suggested I stop dating so many different men and just pick one. Except I pretty much knew after 1 or 2 dates whether this would go anywhere.<br /><br />Then I met my husband. Twice I almost dumped him. First, he wasn't sure he wanted kids since he was 40. I decided it wasn't a deal-breaker. We no have three boys. Second, when he told me I was no Marliyn Susie Klinehttp://Www.motherhoot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-41598208869166640102010-12-30T15:51:28.776-08:002010-12-30T15:51:28.776-08:00Oh, also, I've decided I'm buying a guitar...Oh, also, I've decided I'm buying a guitar and one of the first songs I want to learn is this one, and I want to sing it to myself Every morning as a mantra. "my hips my thighs my (dudun) my eyes, I'm loving all of me," or however it goes. Thanks for reminding me of this awesome song!Jackie Thttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09037093599664597217noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-91763871515862125232010-12-30T15:51:09.020-08:002010-12-30T15:51:09.020-08:00I'm 27, which I think is close enough to your ...I'm 27, which I think is close enough to your age that it doesn't make a difference to me (but maybe does to you?) and I'm in the same place. All of the true loves in my life thus far have happened to gracefully and naturally (ummm, hooking up with your ex's best friend is graceful AND natural, right? Haha...) that I feel like I'm spending too much time "dating" &Jackie Thttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09037093599664597217noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-81324141576595833862010-12-30T15:40:51.789-08:002010-12-30T15:40:51.789-08:00Nush- he was a wanker! yeah! thanks, hon! <3
E...Nush- he was a wanker! yeah! thanks, hon! <3<br /><br />E- thanks so much! feeling your vibes... <br /><br />Lynnette- thanks, sweets! <3Andygirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11639545596114354278noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-80372596582569357182010-12-30T14:55:18.592-08:002010-12-30T14:55:18.592-08:00Thanks for sharing the video, I love it! I think t...Thanks for sharing the video, I love it! I think that is something everyone needs to be reminded of now and then. You are perfect at being you.Lynnettenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-56388589576655119342010-12-30T11:08:22.661-08:002010-12-30T11:08:22.661-08:00Dating is so brutal. Sadly I had a great date a fe...Dating is so brutal. Sadly I had a great date a few nights ago after two weeks of talking everyday. We even chatted afterwards, then nothing for two days. Finally I called him out on his bad behavior and that I deserved more respect and consideration then just getting the silent treatment.<br /><br />I will send good vibes your way, because there will be bumps and bruises along the way. Good Ehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14611472632465144188noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-47993537640374125352010-12-30T10:53:15.375-08:002010-12-30T10:53:15.375-08:00Sounds like a complete wanker. Good thing you foun...Sounds like a complete wanker. Good thing you found out at this stage though. Fingers crossed the nice, right, guy is just around the corner with the brains to like you and love you just the way you are. They do exist...just hard to pick out amongst all the twats.<br /><br />Have a lovely New Years and all the best for 2011!Nushhttp://ivyblaise.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-14530384297895950542010-12-30T08:52:34.287-08:002010-12-30T08:52:34.287-08:00Erin- thanks, love. <3
Kimber- that is EXACTLY...Erin- thanks, love. <3<br /><br />Kimber- that is EXACTLY what I thought that night and why I got my ass out of there. thanks and love to you!<br /><br />amy- word. xoAndygirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11639545596114354278noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-56696614121859782982010-12-30T07:28:47.285-08:002010-12-30T07:28:47.285-08:00Dude, sucks. I feel your pain :(Dude, sucks. I feel your pain :(amydpphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08503140154078793264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-89110144905413718432010-12-30T07:22:46.297-08:002010-12-30T07:22:46.297-08:00Don't change. Be you. If they can't love...Don't change. Be you. If they can't love you for you then they are NOT the person you want to be with. You are right he is an a$$hole. IF he is asking you to change something small now - it will not be the only thing he asks you to change. THIS IS A HUGE RED FLAG. He will become a controlling abusive jerk. It starts with something small then will eventually become everything till Kimber Leszczuk.https://www.blogger.com/profile/10600447859414457126noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-41773319333973566912010-12-30T07:07:31.245-08:002010-12-30T07:07:31.245-08:00Great post. I'm so proud of you for standing u...Great post. I'm so proud of you for standing up for yourself! (And glad the song meant something to you.)Erinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14266544820454800326noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-81787464512738574242010-12-30T07:01:30.281-08:002010-12-30T07:01:30.281-08:00Savage- oh well :)
Caren- you're awesome. tha...Savage- oh well :)<br /><br />Caren- you're awesome. thank you.Andygirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11639545596114354278noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-53752420288272059052010-12-30T05:47:41.410-08:002010-12-30T05:47:41.410-08:00this video should be required listening for teen-a...this video should be required listening for teen-age girls everywhere! I loved it! <br /><br />Don't change who you are my friend, as trite as it sounds you are "a woman of substance" and you will find someone who not only sees that but appreciates it.<br /><br />I didn't find a man who appreciated me for ME til my 40s...what age it happens doesn't matter.....if it is meant Cat and DOG Chat With Carenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02666719374831725417noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-2341949976730479772010-12-30T02:46:29.872-08:002010-12-30T02:46:29.872-08:00I do love Star Wars and the little imperfections t...I do love Star Wars and the little imperfections that make people real. Unfortunately I can't afford to move to Oregon...The Savagehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13743715158080363222noreply@blogger.com