tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post1440299731411418463..comments2023-04-17T08:44:13.092-07:00Comments on Crazy with a side of Awesome Sauce: Phenomenal Fail, otherwise entitled: I am a total assholeAndygirlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11639545596114354278noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-10429056691012366512010-08-11T18:08:48.739-07:002010-08-11T18:08:48.739-07:00Thanks for your comment, Lisa and thanks for readi...Thanks for your comment, Lisa and thanks for reading! welcome! I, of course, have made the proper amends. :)Andygirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11639545596114354278noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-38582150506905855912010-08-11T05:47:26.974-07:002010-08-11T05:47:26.974-07:00I just wandered on to your blog so am just getting...I just wandered on to your blog so am just getting to know you. <br /><br />I think it is wonderful that you have had this revelation about yourself. It's easy and common to keep casting yourself in the role of victim. It's so safe and easy there. It takes courage to really hold a mirror up to yourself and see the ugliness there.<br /><br />You've made this big declaration, Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-90005294167310871432010-08-04T10:15:07.999-07:002010-08-04T10:15:07.999-07:00i know just what you mean. i think we all have the...i know just what you mean. i think we all have the tendency to be assholes but it says a LOT that you acknowledge it and want to change it. PLUS? the real assholes are the ones who have never considered their behavior as "holey-ness".<br />for me, a lot of my assfaceshityyness comes out of a need for self-preservation. im just saying that if WE don't look out for ourselves, who will?steffhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12873226731420317262noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-8643871186221712692010-08-03T23:14:12.870-07:002010-08-03T23:14:12.870-07:00my darling cat lady,
sometimes you just need to l...my darling cat lady,<br /><br />sometimes you just need to let it out. if we lived in the same city (or even the same time zone), I would buy you a drink and listen to whatever you needed to say. and then we'd laugh about it. because I dearly love to laugh.<br /><br />hugsAndygirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11639545596114354278noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-1334151369880112042010-08-03T23:05:12.317-07:002010-08-03T23:05:12.317-07:00Someone was recently an asshole to me. And I wonde...Someone was recently an asshole to me. And I wonder if maybe someone once was an asshole to her, and she was just paying it forward. <br /><br />I'm not an asshole, though. Her treating me that way won't change that. I won't let her change that. But now I'm a bit more suspicious of other people. A bit less willing to trust. And a bit less willing to trust myself – because why didnalonewithcatshttp://alonewithcats.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-44371314877381701532010-08-02T17:19:19.302-07:002010-08-02T17:19:19.302-07:00thanks, Sun. you make a good point.thanks, Sun. you make a good point.Andygirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11639545596114354278noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-4148288142730616402010-08-02T16:32:11.036-07:002010-08-02T16:32:11.036-07:00Assholeyness, I like it. I must quote you in the f...Assholeyness, I like it. I must quote you in the future. <br /><br />I get what you're talking about. I think deep down, everyone has at least some assholeyness to them. Is that bad to say? There are totally days when I'm pissed off at the world, so I'm a bitch and therefore act out against someone else. It's very "me, me, me" of me which is awful. In the comment above we hate you. love, ushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08110530686395229678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-36412332755738690632010-08-02T11:18:20.165-07:002010-08-02T11:18:20.165-07:00yeah I think that's part of it.
I really mis...yeah I think that's part of it. <br /><br />I really miss my therapist.<br /><br />you're right. everyone deserves a shit day, but I shouldn't have caused someone else's shit day.Andygirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11639545596114354278noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-31739038151522145822010-08-02T10:58:58.073-07:002010-08-02T10:58:58.073-07:00Do you think that sometimes the reason behind bein...Do you think that sometimes the reason behind being an "asshole" is cause it is a way of keeping ppl at a distance?<br /><br />I havent seen a therapist in a really long time, but I think with my current problems with my sportsman that maybe just maybe I need to go back.<br /><br />Everyone deserves to have a shit day once in awhile.soccermomhttp://soccer-mom08.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-55508351084697044172010-08-01T18:58:09.466-07:002010-08-01T18:58:09.466-07:00I think the twenties are an ego-centric time, beca...I think the twenties are an ego-centric time, because that's the time everyone tries to figure out the kind of person they want to be. Kudos to you for figuring it out. Some never do. Don't confuse assholeyness with self-preservation. Sometimes they can seem like the same thing. Good luck and keep thinking. You'll figure it out.Dawnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05176211065612790270noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7933814184368176796.post-24449866631277226622010-08-01T17:51:26.278-07:002010-08-01T17:51:26.278-07:00thanks. that's kind of you. I *do* like "...thanks. that's kind of you. I *do* like "assholeness." think I may use it profusely in future. <br /><br />you've got a point. a friend said to me today: if you're not being a hypocrite, you're not doing it right.Andygirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11639545596114354278noreply@blogger.com